Hmmm, gw baru aja baca true love storynya orang laen yg baru aja merit, despite the girl was paralysed. I'll post the story later on. Anyways, I then remembered once I was going to post something about 'understanding'. I remembered there were something that made me want to post this matter, tho I can't remember where did the idea come out and what was it exactly *heizzz*.
Understanding and being understood are one of the main ingredients in a successful relationship (out of many other aspects). When I mentioned relationship, it does always mean the romantic relationship ya.. it could be in any relationships. U know, the word understands is one of the simplest word to be explicated. It simply means.. 'know'. Tapiiii, ternyata this simple word has a very deep and complicated worth. Being understand about someone else.. it does not plainly mean you know.. or u think you know.. or u can picture it in your mind. Tapi when you understand a person, it means you place and picture yourself as that person. You can think and feel as the other person. So, if that person mourns, you don't only know that she/ he mourns, and understands how hard it must be for she/ he. But more, you can feel yourself as that person, and you can feel the same mourns she/ he feels. Do you understand of what I mean? *please put yourself into my mind rite now* Huehueheuhue.
We often say, we do understand, in the meaning: we know, but unfortunately we don't truly understand. That is why sometimes the word 'I do understand' only felt like words without any value. I think the hardest understanding in the relationship is in the man & woman relationship. Why? Because as we all have heard the term of Men are from Mars and Woman are from Venus. They’re very different in fact. It's not as hard work to understand/ think/ feel like your other girlfriends of you're a female, coz you are in the same kind, you know, you have this alike genes. But when it comes you as a female, has to think, feel, and view things the way men do, and vice versa, you as a male has to think, feel, and view things the way women do. It is almost impossible, I think. Hahaha. Rite now I am in the conclusion that men are very very much not sensitive, and women, they are just too sensitive!!! Rite??? So, if you don't have much value about understanding between the sexes, there's no way the broadband will keep on connecting. Understanding has to work both ways for sure!! Of course, to understand a person, you have to know well the other person uniqueness and characteristics. The better you know the person, the more you able to understand him/ her.
Jadi.. in conclusion.. man, if you want to understand you woman, stop thinking and start you heart engine (get your very few sensitive nervers working =p)! And sebaliknya, woman, if you want to understand your man, switch off your heart beating for a while and start using your brain perspectively!!
Do you UNDERSTAND what I mean? ^_^
Good luck in learning become a very understanding person.