We as human beings can choose to go along with the ride, enjoy the ups and despise the downs. OR choose to be "above" the ride - not to get carried away when things are going your way, and likewise not to get bogged down when everything seems to go wrong. Of course, it's easier said than done. From experiences, you don't wanna fall for the second time. You just can't afford it. People seem to be happy yet cautious, and before they know it, they still started to fall apart. Some really happened, some were just assumptions, 'just-in-case'. Most of us posses our own default applications, those you install when you need it security. Dipassion. True, when you're happy, you feel like you're on top of the world. But what happens when you start to get disappointed or upset? Is it worth it, going all through this?
Emotions sometimes feel like traps.
Maybe caring less about feelings and emotions can save me a lot of troubles. I'm sure you've been there. At the same time, I know they provide me with opportunities to grow up and to improve myself. So what appears to be troublesome, actually aren't. Maybe if I see the bigger picture, instead of focusing on minor trivial things, I will be able to deal with this better.
That's the rational way of seeing it.
S o i n a p e r f e c t w o r l d , d o w e s u p p o s e t o i g n o r e t h o s e m i n o r t r i v i a l t h i n g s t h a t t i c k s l i k e a t i m e b o m b ?
My dad once mentioned something about loss and gain. When you lost something or when you loose, certainly gain something too. Most are a LOT of priceless lessons which you don't really get it when you walk up on the clouds. Everything happens for a reason, good or bad, it really depends of how you see it (or take it). Whatever it is, we can always make the best out of even the ugliest situation. Don't forget to make notes of those important lessons so you won't forget. We may fall (a lot of times) along our journey of life. After all when you fall it indicates your movements (walking, running, or flying to whatever you dream of). This may sound cliche but we'll understand everytime we look back.
That golden silent thorns inside
Creates the deepest misery
Makes others draw and believe into their own convictions
We speak the language yet we are muted
Why do we able to speak in the first place?
Hehe, for those who read this and didn't get it, NVM my sporadic thoughts and words.