Tuesday, May 16, 2006

It's funny. Lately I've been exposured to this is so called "man ego". Maybe afterall I don't really know about guys, and here I am accidentally finding new things about these martians. I was faced with the issue for real, but I didn't really know that it was a typical nature - if I can call it, of guys. I thought it was just a character for a particular person or a mood for a particular situation. But then I when a friend told me her story about her guy friend.. I tought.. "wat a coincidence, this guy's thought is very similar... hmmm *thinking*"

Then, in one of an ocassional chat, another friend told me this, "part of it mungkin juga because men are always trying so hard to prove they are strong, to protect their male ego, and by doing so, they become weak". (I copied n pasted it, so it's really from a male's mind)/ *Now I dun even know what were we talking about*

Another time, I chatted about.. you know light stuffs about things not too important to a male 'creature'. During the talk he swiftly said, "yah, anggep aja ini buat ego gw sebagai cowo.." (just think that's it's to fulfill my man's ego). I was like.. what? What ego are you talking about? ..It remains me again about the three 'anecdotes' previously. Then it made me thinking.. this can't be another coincidence. I decided not to ask and talk about it further with him though.. so I was left with my own wonder and thought...

Then I thought, this is not a matter of a coincidence, not a matter of a character, not a matter of moods, this is so called a man ego! Is it? Unrealized-ly, I think.. man wants people (or at least women) to think and see them as a strong character. I don't know but maybe this is some kind of a self measurement for themselves? It's like some women think they are being judged by how they look, and this is the guys' case. I might be wrong, it's what I think.... hmmmm.. man ego.. hmmm. Ternyata!

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